I Think I’m in Love😍

It all happened one faithful day, when I caught myself smiling and I realized I was thinking about you!

I know, being in love doesn’t only involve thinking about someone, it goes beyond that.

But now why do I feel so awkward when he is around?; When he talks to me, I feel butterflies in my stomach; when he looks at me in my eyes, I become clumsy and when he holds my hands, I can barely breathe; let me not mention what happens when he hugs me!

That feeling again 🤦!

I’m caught up in my own delima! Between my feeling and rationalizing my my thoughts.


As a young adult, people expect alot from me. They expect me to behave mature! people talking about marriage here and there. I feel subjected to those societal norms of marriage.

This is that societal norm !

Does it mean to be in love as a young adult means I should be thinking about marriage? Well sorry I’m not ready for that!

I’ll like to, but my Ambitions will not let me conform my self to those norms. I might be in love, but it doesn’t make me a fool.

I’m very conscious of what I want in life. Yes! I’ll sacrifice my present pleasures for future Gain.

It’s not my fault, call me a dreamer but I won’t give up on my dreams.

I might be in love, but I’m definitely not stupid!

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  1. I think you are wise to finish your education and have a career before you are married. On the other hand, you need to be mindful of the biological clock. If you wait until 35 to have children, you may end up at a fertility clinic and having triplets! 🙂 All the best!

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