I might be an adult, but I yet, I still can’t make a good choice of a perfect person to fall in love with.
if you are a young adult that is in love with the wrong person, relax cause, there’s no such thing as a perfect person to fall in love with.
Love is well known for being uncalled for and imperfect. So most at time, it isn’t your fault.
Thus, if you are in love with the wrong person, just try to move on, with time, the feelings will fade.
It’s better to move on, than to be unhappy in love.
The most important issues of loving another is to understand fully what LOVE is from the example of Jesus, and then to not worry about ‘finding’ the “right person” to love, but concentrate on “being the right person” to love. God’s plans for your life will unfold as you trust Him. ❤️&🙏 c.a.
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Cheers! Putting things the way you did, hits me on the right spot.
Because while we strive to find the right person, we forget about being the right person.
Thanks for this. I really learned from it friend☺️
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Yes that’s it. Love is well known as an imperfect thing above all between human beings. Sometimes you love somebody and think he or she does the same thing though he or she is just an opportunist 😂😂😂 funny stuff.
But this doesn’t exclude there is still true love out here, the issue now is to figure out which one fits you
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“Opportunist”! Thanks I got your point
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I do not stay long in a loveless relationship. Im very selfish when it comes to my happiness hey.🥰🥰🥰
When I’m not happy I leave immediately…
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Wow Lebogang, you’re a decisive person, that’s pretty awesome. But now what about the other party, I mean your lover, have you ever thought of how they’ll feel before leaving the relationship?
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I always let them know of what I want in a relationship and if it’s not met, then I leave with clear conscious
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Wow, then that’s pretty awesome
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At the end of the day love can only be termed a risky venture. But we just have to be better versions of ourselves to enable someone love us without regret because character is a very important factor in a relationship. The heart becomes responsive to character be it good or bad. From whatever angle you look at it a failed relationship is usual because of an unbearable character of either of you.
Inkman
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Thank you so much for your comment Inkman, it’s noted, character ☺️
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At the end of the day love can only be termed a risky venture. But we just have to be better versions of ourselves to enable someone love us without regret because character is a very important factor in a relationship. The heart becomes responsive to character be it good or bad. From whatever angle you look at it a failed relationship is usual because of an unbearable character of either of you.
Inkman
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Thanks for your comment Inkman ☺️
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“The heart asks pleasure first/ And then, excuse from pain…The liberty to die.” Emily Dickinson
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Emily Dickinson👏👏👏 Thanks Haoyando for commenting and sharing this piece with us
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